We live in a world where judgments are passed on to everyone and everything. From your online existence to offline your appearance, its all judged and you are constantly under the abuse of the society to do better and be better. Making it hard to love yourself as you are constantly under the radar, either social media or real-life people. So here are my tips and tricks to learn to love and respect yourself and take care of your self:
You are the king/queen:
Know that you are the strongest person you have ever met. You exude something that this world has never seen before. Look at yourself in the mirror and know that what you are looking at is one of a kind. You are the supreme commander of your life and you can do whatever suits you. It’s not about following the rules it’s about making your own rules and knowing that you are doing the best you can.
You are allowed:
Yes, Its time we moved away from the cancel culture and open ourselves up to allow culture. Know that you are allowed. You have the right to make your own decisions and live your life the way you want. There is no harm in having an off day or having a break to relax or even crying if you feel like it. You have a right to make mistakes and learn from them. So, unlearn cancel culture and learn to be you. Learn to love and respect yourself and be who you want to be.
Have you ever seen the process of polishing a piece of metal, how the rot comes off of it and the silver begins to shine? That’s what you are the shining metal underneath all the rot that the society is imposing on you. You can shine underneath all of it and stand out by being who you are. Its all in knowing that you are one of a kind, you are unique and special, your heart is in the right place and you can have a quirky personality.
If celebrities have the right to do it why not you. Find that quirky side of you that makes you stand out among the rest and flaunt it. As there is only one of you in the world who can be the way they want to be so why not use the opportunity that life has granted you and flaunt your quirky side and beat the clutter.
You are Unique:
You are one and only one, you can have a doppelganger but who knows where they are and what are they up to. However, you are the one perfect human being as God intended you to be. So, don’t hide behind the mask that you put on to appease society. As they don’t care about your feelings or what you care about or what you need. They won’t be there when you are gathering the pieces of your personality from the floor. They will only be there when its time to laugh at you and pass judgment but who cares what they think. You need to stop caring about what others think about you and the society.
Yes, you are who you are and you should be proud of it. You have spent countless years perfecting the person you have become. Yes you may learn something new every day and improve on somethings in your life but you won’t back down. You won’t take people’s judgments of you to cloud your thought process or stop you from living life, the way you want to. You are unique and awesome in your own way and embrace that. Embrace your quirky side flaunt it and embrace the person you are. Learn to love and respect yourself as who you have become. While, making amends to perfect yourself to be proud of yourself. Not to appease the world but to appease yourself.
Your aim should be to make yourself stand out and be happy with what and who you are. You are one of a kind and someone that is unique and classy in their own way. Don’t let people cloud your judgment. Don’t let them make you think less of yourself as you are perfect the way you are and you are doing your best to be the best. Learn to love and respect yourself as a unique and amazing person that you are.